Condolence: Steen Family-- My thoughts and prayers are with you as this difficult time approaches of the one year since Doug's passing. Not a day has gone by that I haven't loved or missed him. He was the most remarkable person, and I will continue to think of him with only the happiest of memories. God Bless you.

Condolence: Steen family- I am so truly and deeply sorry for your loss. I just found out this week about Doug's passing and can not imagine what you all must be going through. I know that we have never met, but I knew your son very well. He was one of my best and dearest friends in college, and I loved him very much. Doug was ever the honest, caring, and gentle person, and he touched my life so deeply. I am so sad to have missed the service, but will drive to Connecticut at the first opportunity to pay my respects. Please know how much your son was loved, and truly touched my life, and all who he met. He was the best man I've ever known. My thoughts and prayers to you all.

Condolence: On our drive tonight to the fencing club: I just found out. Earlier: I was puzzled and annoyed that Travis was being so evasive about the prom: I thought he blew it by not asking Erika months earlier. He finally said that something has come up, and, she just can't - and, for me to drop it and to let it rest. Yet, he was not angrily snapping at me - there was an air of unusual melancholy in his usual laconic attitude. Never in my thoughts did I expect that the tragedy of losing Doug so suddenly, was the insurmountable grief that has stricken Erika, you, Brenda, and Lloyd. Meeting Doug at the fencing club, I admired his attention and regard for his sister, driving her home after another long night of fencing. He seemed to be a very loving brother. There was a goodness and reverence in his demeanor that I have seen in all you. Oh, my dear new friends! We want to hold you in our arms to make these painful days go by. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you...if you want to walk in the woods with the dogs, take Erika somewhere with us ...we are close by, as you know. Travis knows that death is a lonely situation, and, he would be honored to support Erika in any way she wants. The heartbreak, my dear friends, is so enormous, but maybe the memories that you carry in your souls will slowly soothe this epic loss of a child. We think about you three with heavy hearts, and hope earnestly, that you will survive this and try to piece things together one by one knowing that your beloved son touched many lives.

Condolence: We just found out about Doug's passing and want you to know that our whole family has you in our thoughts and prayers. We can hardly begin to imagine the hole his loss has left in your hearts. May he be at peace, always and forever more.

Condolence: My condolences to the Steen family. Doug touched so many lives in such a short time. He truly is an angel from the minute he came in to this world. The brightest smile ever and best laugh were infectious. I will miss him dearly. We all have a lot to learn from Doug about living life to the fullest, making each second count. Continue to watch over us from above and prayers of peace and courage for the family and friends left behind.

Condolence: To Lloyd, Brenda, and Ericka, Our hearts go out to all of you at your unimaginable loss. The service tonight was perfect; Doug touched all our lives and the thoughts conveyed by those that stood up in remembrance speaks volumes. Doug was a special, caring, and funny young man. He will be missed. Love and prayers to you all, Barb, Brent, Ford, and Tyler St. John

Condolence: Dear Lloyd, Brenda, and Erika, I'm very sorry to hear of Doug's passing. He was a pleasure young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Condolence: Lloyd, Brenda and Erika, It' almost impossible to find adequate words to express my condolences to you. I can remember pushing Douglas and Megan with Brenda in strollers on Lavander Road. Although I hadn't seen him in many, many years, I remember him as a kind young boy and you should be proud that you raised him so well. I know for a fact that you put your hearts and souls into raising him into a wonderful young man. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you constantly as you go through this indescribably difficult time. Please take care!

Condolence: Loyd, So sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. Hope to continue to see you on the basketball court.

Condolence: Steen Family, Sending my most dear condolences. I love Doug as a brother. I was just recently speaking with a Hyde Alum that Doug's memory is so vivid in our mind. He was always so warm and caring, there was no person at Hyde with the ability to brighten my day like Doug. He was one of few people I can remember throughout my entire life that would take the time to sit down and just talk about anything that was wrong. He cared deeply for his friends. He was one of my best friends. My heart aches for him, and my heart goes out to your family. I can not express enough how I wish only for one more hug from him. More more conversation in front of the gym. Watch him play soccer one more time. He touched my heart, and impacted my life in such a way I could never forget. May he rest in peace. I love you Dougie.

Condolence: Dear Brenda, Lloyd and Erika, We are deeply saddened to hear of your son, Doug's passing. As so many friends have said in their condolences, there are no words adequate at a time like this. Please know that friends and neighbors are with you in this time of sadness, and that we are here for you now and far beyond today. May your cherished memories ease your pain. Laurie and Mike, Sharon, Courtney, Justin and Michelle Meheran

Condolence: sorry for your loss i worked with doug at farmingtonwoods he was a good kid again so very for your loss

Condolence: Brenda, Lloyd and Erika, Having known you all since that first summer in Summer Challenge at Hyde, Doug's loss is very tough to absorb. His delightful personality and love of life were evident right from the start! His stubborn nature often got him into hot water, but his tenacity also served him well as he steamrolled many challenges! Doug will now be forever young, diving for soccer balls, wrestling and knocking people down in lacrosse. As a parent I am crushed to even imagine feeling the pain that you are feeling. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Dan and all the Murphys

Condolence: May God bless you Douglas, and may he give your mom, dad, and sister strength to get through this. I hope to get out with your dad fishin again very soon, as we once did. I know your soul will at some point be at a special place...a very special place, where you've fished, and where the Lord's angels go.

Condolence: Dear Lloyd, Brenda, and Erika, I'm very sorry to hear of Doug's passing. He was a pleasure to have in class with me many years ago as a 6th grader. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Condolence: To the Steen Family. We were so sorry to hear of Doug's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Condolence: Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Condolence: To the entire Steen Family: How does one put into words of sympathy the loss of child. Our hearts go out to the entire family and we pray that you will all find the courage and strength to get through this very difficult period. We will continue to pray for all of you and just know that if there is anything that you may need, we are only a phone call away and we hope that you know that he will now watch over each and every one of you with all the angels......may God be with you.

Condolence: I cannot tell you how sorry I am. My heart and prayers go out to your family. The loss of a child leaves such a hole. Doug was a special young man.

Condolence: Dear Steen Family, To say Doug was an amazing guy would be a severe understatement, so let's just say your son brought a lot of light and laughter into the lives of me and my family, and he will be dearly missed. I think it's safe to say we all thought of Doug as part of the family and loved him dearly. From cooking up the famous "Steen Steak," to playing basketball with my little brother outside, Doug was always kind, funny and gentle. For me, this loss has been particularly pronounced, as I considered Doug one of my closest friends in High School. Though college made it difficult to keep in touch, I thought (and will continue to think) of Doug often, remembering the movies we watched, the pool playing in my basement and most fondly, the time Doug came ballroom dancing with me and my family. What a night that was and what a sport Doug was for putting up with such an insane family event! I can safely say that no other guy I know would take the dance floor with my Mother with as much gusto as Doug displayed that night. He was truly one-of-a-kind and will be sorely missed by us all. I am thinking of you all constantly and hope you are doing the best you can during such a sad time. Though I am not a particularly religious person, I am confident Doug will out live us all through the mark he made during his time on Earth. There are only a handful of people you meet in this world with the charismatic spark Doug had, and I consider myself forever lucky to have known him. I miss you Doug. Rest in peace, my dear, dear friend. Sincerely, Rebecca Castellani and the Castellani Family (Helen, David and Michael)

Condolence: Dear family of Doug, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. As a parent, I can't imagine anything more difficult. I am sure you will remember your Doug in the good times, and will keep those memories alive. My best to all of you, Love, Leslie (Howell) Trotta

Condolence: My sincere condolences. My heart goes out to all of you in this rough time. I don't really have the proper words, but take care my friend. You and your family are in my thoughts. Caleb

Condolence: Our thoughts and prayers are with you Doug, Our deepest condolence to the Steen Family.

Condolence: Lloyd, Brenda and Erika, the news of Doug's passing has left us with a hole in our hearts. He was such a cheery presence on the Hyde campus (and beyond). His friendship and support was gift to Sam and by extension to us. Please know we are holding you closely in our thoughts and prayers.

Condolence: Brenda, Lloyd, Erica, We are heartbroken by the news of Doug's passing. Hold tight to your memories of Doug and know that you are in are thoughts and prayers.

Condolence: Brenda and Lloyd, Our hearts are broken. Lino called us with the news today and we can't believe it. Doug was a wonderful friend to Lino at Hyde and we remember many conversations our families had during those years. We send you all our love and our prayers.

Condolence: Brenda and Lloyd, We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. We looked back at some of the fantastic pictures we have of Doug on the Hyde soccer field and were also reminded of his contagious smile greeting us on many visits. He'll be remembered and missed.

Condolence: Brenda and Lloyd - I am deeply saddened by this tragic news. Some of my fondest memories as a soccer coach revolve around the sprawling, cat-like saves your son made each time he stepped out on the soccer pitch. Your son was a fierce competitor and led his life with a similar passion and tenacity. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Condolence: Brenda and Lloyd, We were greatly saddened by the news of Doug's passing. Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss.

Condolence: To The Steen Family: Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not tell you how much my heart aches for you and your family. I always thought that Doug was a great kid. He had that smile that made you wonder what he was up to... Jen Kozikis-West Suffield CT....

Condolence: I worked with Doug and your family at Hyde...we did at least two FLC's together. My heart goes out to the your family. He was a spunky, tough nosed kid with a wicked and delightful grin. My sons and I are praying for all of you.